Kate and Tanya had a new wish

We loved our new life with two girls! It wasn't always easy but it was never dull. Craig and I thought we were all done; we had our two kids and could now sit back and enjoy raising them. The girls had other ideas...and in the Fall of 2004, they told us that they wished for a brother. We laughed...but the more we thought about it, the more we liked the idea. We amassed another mountain of paperwork, submitted our dossier and rode the international adoption roller coaster again. In July of 2005, we returned to Tanya's orphanage in Kazakhstan to adopt Maksim, an 8 year old boy....


and suddenly, we were the parents of three beautiful kids.

Who we are and how we came to be greater than 3

Every family is unique and has its own story...this is the story of our family's adventures as our journey together unfolds. We invite our family and friends along for the ride as you follow our blog; you've all read our email updates over the past several years as our family has grown and know our story well. We hope you'll enjoy the updates in our new blog as our saga continues!

New cyberfriends are welcome, too...and this post is really for you since no one likes coming into a story in the middle. Here's the background info you'll need to make sense of who we are and how we became a family of five. It also chronicles our latest family adventure, our third international adoption from the faraway land of Kazakhstan.

We are Craig Schoelles and Dee Risley from Salem, MA, AKA Mom and Dad to 3 utterly different, completely amazing, slightly maddening, totally wonderful kids. We married in our late 30's and aspired to have a child or two before my biological clock stopped ticking. We beat the bio clock and had a bouncing baby girl in 1995. After that, the clock won all the rounds and we settled down to accept being a family of three with our darling only child. So how did we get to our current crowd? It started with seven year old Kate and her heartfelt wish for a sister.

Our darling diva Kate has never been one to graciously take no for an answer...so when we knew we wouldn't be having any more kids biologically, she was bereft in her typically dramatic 2nd grade way. She had been dreaming of a sister for so long...and her steadfast refusal to give up on her dream inspired us to hang onto our bigger family dreams as well.

We found Kidsave, International, a great program that brings orphans to the US for a summer visit in hopes of finding them adoptive families. We volunteered to host a child in our home for the summer and were matched with a 6 year old girl from Kazakhstan.


Tanya arrived for her visit in the summer of 2003; our girls became sisters of the heart from the moment they met and Craig and I knew we had another wonderful daughter. We climbed a mountain of paperwork and hacked our way through the red tape jungle required to adopt Tanya, finally bringing her home in March 2004. Tada! We were a family of 4 and Kate's wish resulted in all of our wishes coming true...